Step no.1✨️

STEP 1: LET THE DOGS BARK.

 

Now that we know what an it girl truly is our next step is becoming her and if you trust the process it will be as easy as stepping into a dress because that is how we will be stepping into this beautiful it girl era of ours. And trust me love it is all in you hidden inside somewhere waiting to be unleashed and that is exactly why you are reading this because that beautiful beast for whom nothing is impossible is urging you to, because it loves you too much to allow you to live such a miserable life(yes that is where your self-love comes from when you feel that sudden self admiration for yourself even after having those insecure moments where you felt self conscious), because it wants you to reach all those heights of success you dream of. So let that bitch takeover now because it's time love.

FIRST STEP:

INTRO:

Our first step is creating a wall around us because what we are cooking inside is not to be affected by outside air. By outside air we mean the false beliefs and accusations put to us. Sometimes people even think that they're the ones who will decide our life by imposing us with various decisions, listen love it is your life you are the main character make your own dreams not the ones imposed on u. Create your own ideal life plan your own world live in it. In another blog i will tell you a whole step by step guide on how to figure out what your ideal life is and to figure out what you want in life.If you already know congratulations you are already a step ahead.

HOW TO APPLY:

Now we get to the working part what you gotta do is you're gonna imagine there's an invisible circle around you made of concrete only positive vibes can cross it rest of the stuff it is not able to cross it from ur surroudigs i.e discouraging voices, false beliefs, accusations etc, cannot cross it only the stuff which is beneficial for u can cross it. Every day, you're going to wake up and step into this circle just like we step into a room. This is your personal room. Let's consider it as a sort of game whenever you feel like something is triggering u or something hurts u just know that u created a crack in that circular wall ,your world, in your room, which is ultimately going to put you a step behind in achieving your life goals your everyday goal is to have this wall as whole at the end of the day without any cracks. Make it a goal of the day. Also, let's call this game "protecting our peace." 

RESULT:

   You see what we did. By doing that, we achieved a freaking goal. We didn't look back to the barking of dogs so their barking went straight to trash. And trust me by doing even just that the power you'll feel *chef's kiss* and you'll actually feel happy. Directly propotional to feeling more motivated and focused on achieving your dreamlife and goals instead of feeling self-pity and self consciousness by their words.